In this video, I talk about relationship role models and the difference between using them to our advantage and using them against ourselves.
It's quite common to fall into the comparison trap and use other people's positive traits as evidence of our own lack. But what if we instead could train our brain to be inspired by other people and the things about them we admire and value?
I might even go as far as to say that admiring and appreciating traits in other girlfriends can help us understand what we truly desire, without carrying the burden of our own limiting beliefs, identity, and past on our shoulders.
PS. If you want to hear more about The Blake Lively Effect, check out episode 16 of The Grumpy Girlfriend Podcast here, or on iTunes, or Spotify.